Auntie Julie caught this photo on her camera from this last weekend at her house. I absolutely LOVE it!! It sums up how happy and silly our baby girl is! She is always giggling and laughing and making us giggle and laugh!!!!
I'm one of those mommy's waiting and I heard the best description of the wait the other day. A lady said it feels like your child has been abducted and you know where they are, but you can't go get them. These babies are real to their families. We have bonded with our little ones. So I with Amber ask for your prayers. Please petition our Lord for His favor!
Amber - I'll join you in praying. When we got Katie 18 years ago, I felt these same powerful emotions. Joy and sorrow all at once. Grief for a birthmom's loss yet unspeakable joy for my gain. Grief for friends who had placements fall through while we snuggled our gift. Such gratitude and yet pleading and petitioning to God. It happens again on Mother's and Father's day. We are neglectful in not acknowleding the pain of the wait and the loss for birthfamilies. I'm thankful our God is the Great Comforter and Healer. Our Social Worker said we had to go through the process of Relinquishment and Entitlement. Birthfamilies lovingly choose to make a better way for their children by relinquishing their rights as parents. This relinquishment entitles us to takeover the parenting of these precious children. We're allowed. They are ours. We're entitled. Be joyful! These children are blessed with birthparent, foster parent and finally adoptive parent love. How awesome is that! Our Katie is on her way back home after spending a week visiting her birthmom & birthfamily. I can truly say it is well with my soul to have her loved and adored by all of us. Sharing your joy, and grief, Shelly Telfor (Pat, Katie, Matthew and of course Claire!)
One Mommy. One Daddy. Two brothers. Four hearts who waited so long for our sister and daughter to come home. And now our wonderful family is finally complete!
Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
Adoption TimeLine
2011: 12/28 -FINALIZED! Adelyn is All OURS! 12/10 - Last post-placement visit 10/22 - Third post-placement visit 8/28 - Second post-placement visit 7/6 - First post-placement visit 6/24 - Home Forever 6/22 - GOTCHA DAY!!!!!! 6/17- Leave for Korea 6/10 - TRAVEL CALL!!!!!! 6/8 - NVC Out 6/3 - NVC In 6/3 - I-171 (I600 copy) received in mail 5/27 - I600 APPROVAL! 5/26 - Received 9 month update with DVD! 5/12 - 797C Notice of Action received from USCIS saying they had received our I600 on May 5. 5/3 - I600 Submitted! 5/1 - Homestudy visit #4 (needed for updating homestudy) 4/29 - County Court Approval! 4/19 - Paperwork sent to county courts 4/15 - ICPC approval! 4/6 - Paperwork sent to ICPC Office in Lansing 4/5- Legals arrived! 3/30- Care package sent to Korea! 3/24- Agency sent Acceptance papers to Korea 3/10- Health Forms updated 3/5- Acceptance paperwork finished/mailed to agency 2/28-Officially accepted Referral!! 2/25- Received referral file/pictures 2/23- REFERRAL!!!! 2/6- Finished all of our Hague trainings
2010: 8/24- Dossier/Homestudy to Korea!! 8/19- Korea webinar 7/19- I-600A APPROVED! 6/21- Fingerprinting completed 6/7- Received I-797C (Fingerprinting Appointment Notice) 5/26- Submitted I-600A 5/4- Homestudy APPROVED! 3/28- Homestudy meeting #3! 3/21- Homestudy meeting #2! 3/13- Homestudy meeting #1! 3/7- Passports received 3/2- FAC caseworker assigned! 3/2- FAC application approved! 2/24- FAC application completed/mailedl! 2/5 - Applied for passports 1/30- Completed half of our Hague trainings 1/21- Spence-Chapin application approved! 1/13- Spence-Chapin application mailedl! 2009: 12/23- Qualified for Korean Program! 11/15- Began researching agencies/countries 11/1 - Made decision to adopt
Hopeful timeline to bring our daughter home: Spring 2011
"Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you."
2 comments:
I'm one of those mommy's waiting and I heard the best description of the wait the other day. A lady said it feels like your child has been abducted and you know where they are, but you can't go get them. These babies are real to their families. We have bonded with our little ones. So I with Amber ask for your prayers. Please petition our Lord for His favor!
Amber - I'll join you in praying. When we got Katie 18 years ago, I felt these same powerful emotions. Joy and sorrow all at once. Grief for a birthmom's loss yet unspeakable joy for my gain. Grief for friends who had placements fall through while we snuggled our gift. Such gratitude and yet pleading and petitioning to God. It happens again on Mother's and Father's day. We are neglectful in not acknowleding the pain of the wait and the loss for birthfamilies. I'm thankful our God is the Great Comforter and Healer. Our Social Worker said we had to go through the process of Relinquishment and Entitlement. Birthfamilies lovingly choose to make a better way for their children by relinquishing their rights as parents. This relinquishment entitles us to takeover the parenting of these precious children. We're allowed. They are ours. We're entitled. Be joyful! These children are blessed with birthparent, foster parent and finally adoptive parent love. How awesome is that! Our Katie is on her way back home after spending a week visiting her birthmom & birthfamily. I can truly say it is well with my soul to have her loved and adored by all of us. Sharing your joy, and grief, Shelly Telfor (Pat, Katie, Matthew and of course Claire!)
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